When I was at school, in the eighth grade, I managed to break my right leg. The point is not which one, but that my broken leg helped me fall in love.
Intrigued? Oh how I understand you now….
I've been through this for a long time. Five or six years ago, so it’s not so scary for me to remember the past. In general, due to the injury, I was assigned "home" training until the cast was removed. I was not very upset, because it was interesting for me to “see” how they are trained in the apartment walls.
To be honest, I liked it. And you can eat normally, and you do not need to run through the corridors and offices. There are many benefits to this type of study. Too bad they didn't cancel all my least favorite items.
I did not like the exact sciences: mathematics, chemistry, physics. The theoretical part - all right. But puzzles are just a deadly test. I won’t say that I was an excellent student, but I studied very well. Many teachers even praised (not in the exact sciences).
One Thursday, suddenly, I was told to wait for a new chemistry teacher, because the old teacher went on maternity leave. An image of an old man with glasses immediately appeared in my mind. And he came - a young, interesting and handsome man. Seven years older than me.
I fell in love with him immediately...
I was even numb for about five minutes when he entered. I started studying chemistry. Then - to understand what I teach. At first I was surprised, then I got used to it. I loved chemistry! And not only her... Nikolai Valerievich stole my heart from my chest. Of course, I didn’t feel sorry for giving it to such a person, but I didn’t want to be hurt by “non-reciprocity”.
In general, I would not say that I am ugly. My age, as it seemed to me, would have more affected the relationship. Do not explain that age is just numbers. I realized that the teacher would think about the fact that there should not be a romance between a student and a teacher. But I dreamed of breaking all the stereotypes in the world in order to be with him.
What to do? We follow further. . .
My love came unexpectedly. And the leg stopped hurting, everything stopped hurting. I thought only about the teacher, about meeting him. In my dreams, I often imagined that we, instead of a chemistry lesson, arranged. But when I thought about it, all my memory "left" against the learning process. Mom noticed the change. Dad is too. But they were silent about their guesses until a certain time. Somehow, finishing my studies at home for the last week, I got two points in the Russian language. This is where my parents got excited. They were so horrified that they wanted to tear up the diary. I wouldn't be upset if they did that. But they acted differently: they punished me in full. But before the punishment, an open (in the sense of frankness) conversation took place, in which dad and mom accused me of doing nonsense and being lazy. And about my love they said straight to the eye. I was so embarrassed. But - at first.
Mom made sure that I no longer had the last home-based "chemistry" lesson. And sobs did not save me. They, in turn, seriously broke me off. Only eyes brought to redness in vain. I came to school. I was told that Nikolai Valeryevich no longer works where I study. The sobs were repeated.
As soon as I found out about this, I left school, skipping four lessons. And I didn’t think that they would put truants on me. It wasn't before school...
I have not seen my beloved for four years ...
And so, unexpectedly, I came to work in the same firm where he was deputy general director! Hysterical laughter overcame me when I saw him. I realized that all feelings were gone. We are best friends. And what surprised me, he asked to be the godmother of his two children. Well, why should I refuse if I can agree?
Agreed, now I'm friends with his wife
I'm not going to get married. In any case, for now. I have other plans for life. First - career growth, after - the family. And let everyone who considers it appropriate condemn me for this. What people think and say is their right. I live only the way I want. I don't look at others, I don't copy the way of life, I don't build illusions. I live the way I want. And this, in my opinion, is correct, as it seems to me.
Kolya is a good person. But I don't understand how I could fall in love with him so much? How many times I wondered how to live without him, what to do, and all that stuff. Now it's funny. I see that this is not my type of men. My eyes used to see the world through different eyes. A different "vision" of the world distorted my idea of a chemistry teacher.
I love remembering the past...
Not all, but only some certain moments. In the soul - warmth, comfort, harmony. This is how it should have been in theory. Everyone, always and in everything. But! Can not be. In some way, one way or another, "jambs" happen. We see him often. We talk for a long time. We remember my broken leg, which, thank God, has grown together as it should. We remember school. By the way, the school in which I studied, he was not comfortable. He said that something was not completed in it. And he doesn't even know what. And he won't know until he builds his own school.
And in chemistry in the certificate I have an "excellent". It is not clear how it happened. Maybe Nikolai was in a hurry. But I don't like dishonesty. And I know that I know "satisfactorily" chemistry. Especially - all sorts of formulas.
I will go and work as a chemistry teacher in my next life. Fall in love with someone. And I will be able to repeat the wonderful love story that connected two people in friendly ties ...
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How to confess love? —
Love is a sublime feeling. It can happen to absolutely anyone. Social status does not matter. But what if you fell in love with a teacher? Today, many representatives of the stronger sex choose the profession of a teacher. There are cases when a high school student falls in love with a teacher. There are men in every teaching staff. And not every one of them looks like a “rude physical education teacher”, about whom students and their parents constantly complain to the head teacher. This may be a well-read teacher with whom it is interesting to talk on many topics. It is precisely in such and such teachers that students most often fall in love. However, in the vast majority of cases, schoolgirls mistake ordinary affection for love.
What can cause the appearance of falling in love with a teacher?
- Father's absence. The young lady on a subconscious level feels a reliable shoulder.
- All kinds of complexes. Many girls are worried about the lack of attention from their peers. They consider themselves "the ugly duckling". Therefore, it is not surprising that a schoolgirl falls in love with a teacher. She seeks recognition from a teacher who appreciates not only external beauty, but also spiritual qualities.
If you fell in love with a teacher
When a young lady falls in love with someone, she does everything possible to ensure that the object of love pays attention to her. However, she is also afraid of being ridiculed. This phenomenon is quite natural. If you want to have a close relationship with the person you like, you must answer yourself some questions:
- Can you be happy if you make another woman unhappy? In this case, we are talking about the teacher's wife. Do not lose sight of the fact that the teacher can have children. How will they grow up without a father?
- Are you aware that you will be judged by others? You can be blamed by relatives, classmates and teachers.
- Can you adequately perceive the rejection of the person you like? If you fell in love with a teacher, this does not mean that he will reciprocate you.
It is worth noting that in isolated cases, the love of a teacher and a student still ends in marriage. However, this is usually preceded by many problems.
If you are a creative person, then you can make friends with a teacher. To do this, it is necessary to work diligently in the discipline he teaches, to actively participate in the lessons and monitor his appearance. It will not be superfluous to find common interests. If a person is bound by marriage, then you should not evoke reciprocal feelings in him.
Fell in love with a teacher, what should not be done?
- In no case do not tell about your experiences to a large number of people. Of course, if the world is not nice to you without a teacher, then you can open up to a close friend. However, make sure that rumors do not spread about the situation.
- If you fell in love with a teacher and he does not share your feelings, in no case make fun of him. Conduct yourself with dignity!
- Don't start studying! Try to get good grades. Otherwise, it will be very difficult for you to enter the chosen university. Remember that your future prosperity largely depends on what knowledge you now receive.
- Do not chase the object of love. Recall that each of us should have our own personal space. It is impossible to invade even the closest people.
Criminal Code
You should not forget about the legal aspect. In accordance with the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation, a man is responsible for communication with a minor. Even if a person manages to avoid punishment, he will still be fired from his job. In addition, if a student fell in love with a teacher, then everyone around will condemn the teacher.
If you decide to confess to the teacher that you love him, then get ready for the fact that he will most likely reject you. In this situation, only time will help you. Someday your spiritual wounds will surely heal.
Recall that in any incident, you can consider the positive side. Even if the teacher rightfully did not reciprocate your love, your knowledge of his subject will help you enter the law school.
My favorite man is a teacher. Love him. My life story.
Our age difference is five years. I'm fifteen. He is twenty. I like him, I love him. I fell in love so much that I decided to conquer it to the end. I wore short skirts, the deepest neckline. Mom and dad didn’t forbid it, because they didn’t see what I was wearing to school. They wanted to call their parents to school, but they didn’t call everyone. They understood that I did not want to hide youth and beauty under a bunch of clothes.
I fell in love with the Chemistry teacher.
He- Chemistry teacher. Never liked this item. Yeah, I didn't really understand it either. Therefore, there was no need to look for a reason to see Pasha not only at the lessons. His name is Pavel Pavlovich. But I call him Pasha. Not openly, of course, but for myself personally. About the love for the teacher, I did not spread to everyone. To prevent anyone from spreading rumors. Only Vera and Katya knew about love - my two faithful girlfriends. They have been tested for years. They checked - I believed. They were not surprised, because everyone understood it anyway.
He looked at me and blushed like a boy. His voice trembled as our eyes met. He diligently "ran away" from my smiles. My patience has come to an end. I decided that I needed to act, and not suffer in anticipation of the unknown.
I persuaded my friends to go to his teacher's room. They did not give consent for a long time, because they were shy, or experienced something similar. They agreed only when I promised to be offended by them until graduation. Frightened…. An unfair method, but it was the first one that came to my mind.
We went up to the second floor, went to the cherished door, looked at each other. I grabbed the doorknob. Came in. She entered without knocking. I, from excitement, completely forgot to knock. He was quietly checking his notebooks. The girls quietly followed me.
We said hello. And again I saw that he was blushing. He admired my tights (fine fishnet) and my silk skirt, bought not so long ago. I won't lie that I ran to the shops to dress up especially for him. I just liked what I bought. I like to buy not only the clothes that suit me. But I like to buy the one in which I feel comfortable and confident.
Katya did not lose her head. She told Pasha that I really want to go to him for tutoring or for additional classes, because I don’t understand chemistry well, but I’m embarrassed to admit it. He asked to leave us. The girls went out into the corridor. My heart was beating very hard. He looked at me, blushing, and dropped glances at my whole body. He said. What awaits me tomorrow at one o'clock. I knew he was married. I knew that he had a small child. He only reassured me by saying, “They left. They won't be here for a week." How happy I was! She ran out - kissed, in a friendly way, her girlfriends. It was obvious how happy they were for me. I counted the minutes until the meeting. She barely sat through all the lessons, but did not skip a single one.
Pasha did not tell me the address, because I already knew it by heart. I ran to him without ceasing to dream. I almost got hit by a car. How the driver scolded me! I understand it. But he me - no. I didn't ask for understanding. I asked only to leave me, to give way to my beloved. I ran as if I always had exceptionally excellent marks in physical education.
I rang the intercom, flew into the entrance, ran to the elevator. And I was not at all upset that it did not work. Pashechka lived on the twelfth floor, but I ran to him in a moment, stumbling over every step. Pashka was waiting for me at the door. I restrained myself. And so I wanted to throw myself on his neck ....
He invited me to enter the apartment. He helped me take off my blouse and led me into the room. I did not expect, but he himself began to kiss me. Caress, hug. How I felt good with him! I dreamed that these moments would not stop. Was there something between us? Yes it was! I wanted him to become my first man in an intimate sense. That didn't stop me. That he is married. He was not stopped by my minor age. We spent a fabulous night. I will never forget her! The first night of love is unforgettable. Our heavenly morning was disturbed by the ringing of a mobile phone. His wife called to say that she would be home soon.
I didn't know he would be so rude to me. He pulled the blanket off me, shouted for me to dress faster than the wind, and rolled off. He did not pay attention to my tears, nor to the misunderstanding in my eyes.
I left. He didn't even kiss goodbye. The next morning I didn't go to school. After - too. I had to take a certificate from the doctor that I was sick so that absenteeism would not be “shuffled”. I don't care about these lessons!
Friends advise to find a boyfriend. Why do I need some guy if Pasha is dear to me? I understand that he used me, taking advantage of my feelings, but I still love .... I would like to stay with him again. Little fool! By the way, Veerka hinted that I should report him to the police. I definitely won't do this. I myself wanted to be close to him. Revenge is no help. Revenge can alleviate the situation only in theory, but not in practice.
I know it won't be entirely mine. But I'm happy with what happened between us. His wife won't know anything from me. It hurts me insanely, but I did not have and will not plan to set him up, thereby destroying his family.
I transferred to another school. It's easier for me to be far than close. I think he got upset. Well, let yourself! He will be sorry for what he did to me. But I'm not going back to school or to him.
What to do with love? Forgetting is the way out. But it's so difficult….. First love is bitter chocolate. With a taste of the salinity of tears. I tried it. I don't want anyone like me. I'm fifteen. Life is already broken. New to start - no desire. I do not need anything. No life, no heart, no body, no soul. He took everything, leaving me pathetic copies of the old me. He doesn't want the real me back.
At a classmate follows me. But he is a friend. I love Pasha. Of course, I don’t tell my friend about this, otherwise he will tell when he is angry and angry. Nothing will happen to my classmate. He needs to grow up a little. Yes, and I'm embarrassed to meet him. He is a baby! Let him think about the future. I don't want to disturb him, even though he always insists that I don't bother him.
Lovely age sometimes plays tricks on a teenager. Hormonal changes in a growing organism, lack of life experience, an unknown feeling of love and mutual attention sometimes push us to rash acts. For example, it happens that a schoolgirl has feelings for her teacher. How to be? What to do? More on this later in the article.
Schoolgirl love
What to do if you fell in love with a teacher? Similar stories happen sometimes in educational institutions. Between the mentor and the student, sparks of love can run, fueled by emotional dialogue or circumstances. After all, the schoolgirl now has an age when emotions take precedence over reason. Children's dreams still dominate, making it difficult to realize the reality of ongoing events. The feeling of falling in love overshadows everything around, only the face and words of the beloved stand before your eyes.
Sometimes such a state awakens even negligent students to action, forcing them to draw attention to themselves by a change in behavior or appearance. A new hairstyle, languid looks, increased observation instead of the educational process and a sober approach. Excellent students also fall in love, allowing themselves to abandon their studies and miss classes, torment themselves with suspicions and suffer without reciprocal feelings. It's all unreasonable.
If the object of adoration is connected by family ties, then any reciprocal actions can compromise and spoil relations with his wife and children. This imposes a certain responsibility on both parties. Even a big age difference is not able to prevent the awakening of strong feelings.
How to behave in such situations?
Before telling what to do if you fell in love with a teacher, we will describe what you can not do:
- Openly demonstrate your interest in relationships, so as not to get into an awkward situation yourself and not put the teacher in such circumstances.
- Share these feelings with your girlfriends to avoid generating rumors and gossip.
- Behaving inappropriately or portraying an offended student, complicating the learning process.
- If no dialogue can take place, then do not strive for it.
- Write notes, letters, messages about great love for life.
- Threatened with attempts to commit suicide.
- Set conditions that limit the choice of another.
- Constantly seek with the eyes of a reciprocal look.
- Look for all sorts of reasons to communicate in private.
- Provoke casual bodily contact.
Student love and reciprocal feelings
What to do if a student fell in love with a physical education teacher, and receives reciprocal attention to herself? A strong man, physically healthy, is the object of desire not only for young girls, but also for adult women. Hope for support and protection is laid down at the genetic level. The desire to get a worthy man as a father for your unborn child is a natural instinct, and it is quite difficult to fight him. But still, it is worth remembering that you are a student, and he is your teacher. And this means that there can be no relationship.
Love by design
What to do if you fell in love with a physics teacher just for the reason that you get help in solving problems and mastering educational material? Sober judgment will not hurt here. It is necessary to determine what qualities attract attention to this person. The manner of speaking or intelligibly explaining incomprehensible formulas, assembling electrical circuits, conducting experiments, or encouraging the study of the world around us from the point of view of physics. What can these qualities give in family life and the upbringing of children, how long will this interest last, and whether the enthusiasm will pass with the end of the course of study.
What to do if a teacher falls in love with a student?
The situation is also not easy. It's easy to fall in love with a young girl. Sympathy easily develops into a more complex feeling. Young beauty is charming and naive, there are plenty of reasons for panic in an adult man. If the object of sympathy is a minor, then there are restrictions in the development of relations leading to criminal liability. It is this circumstance that must be considered first. Setting priorities in the form of loss of respect from colleagues or condemnation from future relatives, change of place of work or residence is the second reason to weigh all the possible consequences of such love.
If the feelings are so deep and the intentions are serious, you will have to wait more than one year just to find out if they are mutual or not. No one is ready to be rejected, especially when it comes to emotional experiences. Do we need such a relationship of different ages, and what continuation can follow. A young girl can be frightened by the feelings of an adult man, unless she is a young graduate of the institute, and the chosen one is not twice as young as the gentleman. Being in love should not interfere with work, this hindrance will be instantly noticed by teenagers.
The teacher's feelings
What to do if a teacher falls in love with a student? Whether these are maternal feelings or the desire to be dominant in family relationships will have to be dealt with without delay. If an adult woman has sexual desires for her student, then the reasons are hidden in long-standing psychological trauma. The desire to take care of someone who is younger and weaker can be replenished by the birth of their own children. The usual standard of society assumes the seniority of a man in a family union. The image of the breadwinner and protector may not fit the current picture.
What to do if a student falls in love with a teacher?
It is worth understanding the cause of the feelings. Perhaps there is a lack of maternal love and attention, which causes a feeling of falling in love with the teacher. Perhaps this is the desire to have an older sister with similar traits and demeanor, or a girlfriend who knows more than you, can advise, listen, or help solve life's problems.
If a teacher is fashionably dressed, slim and modern, has beautiful make-up and expensive manicure, then she automatically becomes the object of attention not only for boys, but also for girls. Falling in love with a teacher and sighing for her is akin to being infatuated with a popular film actor or musician, whose life is followed by the eyes of fans and admirers.
The student's feelings
What to do if a student falls in love with a teacher? First of all, he needs to understand the reasons for the sympathy that has arisen. It is necessary to find out what qualities attract the attention of a young lover, how further relationships appear in the wildest fantasies. The desire to have a sexual experience with an adult woman or the lack of attention from peers drive the train of thought of a young man.
Is it an idealization of the female image as a creative manifestation of a talent for poetry or art? Chanting a diva or a mercantile interest in getting good grades in a teacher's journal. If the age difference is significant, then you should think about what such a young boyfriend will be interesting for the chosen one. What are the options for developing a serious relationship, and are they possible at all.
What if the guy What can a young man see in his teacher, except for the embodiment of femininity and attractiveness? Perhaps attention is drawn to the treatment of adolescents and participation in youth problems, a form of communication, discussion of many situations on an equal basis with students. This style of behavior makes the teacher younger in the eyes of students, erasing the age limit.
Studying influences the further choice of a profession, finding happiness, turning many desires into reality and achieving goals. Much depends on the teacher in the development of the unformed personality of a teenager. A very careful approach to each situation of sympathy and falling in love will help you find the right way out.
Conclusion
Passion and love in adolescence sometimes stimulates the overcoming of obstacles, the development of new heights and distant horizons. In an unsuccessful scenario, it makes you sigh about indecision for a whole life, not finding a worthy replacement for your first true love. Sometimes you have to listen to your heart, not your mind. Unequal marriages have always existed. It is important that marriage unions are strong, and love is mutual.
Love rarely bypasses anyone - this wonderful feeling all people without exception regardless of social status, age and gender.
But sometimes difficulties come along with love - especially when the object of love for one reason or another is out of reach or there are some barriers to its realization.
Psychology and causes
Cases where students fall in love with their teachers are actually very common - just, for obvious reasons, this does not always become public domain.
Love is an intimate feeling, and many choose to hide it from others, especially in high school. Why is this happening?
Teacher is in constant contact with his students, interacts with them, teaches the subject, gives advice and guidance and, of course, encourages.
Ultimately, a close spiritual bond can develop between teacher and student, a relationship that can lead to the student or student feeling in love with their teacher.
This happens especially often when parents do not pay due attention to a teenager, are cold with him, do not show warm feelings, and he finds more support and care from his teacher.
The student can feel need for patronage and receive them from the teacher, which creates the prerequisites for falling in love. But the opposite case also takes place - when teachers fall in love with their students.
This is also quite natural - after all, often a teacher puts his soul into his work, together with his pupil, conducts a considerable part of your life, going through difficult periods and moments of joy with him, which lays the foundation for personal attachment to the student.
At the same time, those teachers most often fall in love with their students who believe that in their lives they missed something in adolescence, did not realize themselves sufficiently.
The teacher activates the so-called "puer complex" - a teenager.
What to do if you fell in love with a teacher or with your student or student, how to do it right and deal with your feelings?
What to do if you fell in love?
The school teacher
Although first love is a categorical feeling, first of all you should think - huh?
Perhaps this is love, which may well pass after a while, replaced by calm respect for the teacher.
it's the same very strong feeling, and you can’t say that it’s not serious - but you also need to allow for the situation when your attitude towards the teacher, as well as plans for the future, may change.
If you decide that you really fell in love - do not rush things. You go to school every day and see the teacher at the lessons - you will enjoy communication. Teach his subject well - as a teacher, he will be very pleased.
But most importantly - do not demand immediate reciprocity. On the contrary, pay attention - is the teacher himself interested in intimate relationships?
Does he want to respond to your feelings?
Perhaps he is already married and has children - and he is happy in his family life. Will you become destroy happiness loved one?
Does the teacher know about your feelings? Wonderful! A competent teacher will definitely find a way out of the situation and give the right advice on what exactly you should do.
Even if the teacher is single and wants to reciprocate, you still have to wait a while, until you reach adulthood don't finish school.
You should not rush and lose your head - as a love affair with a student can only harm the reputation of the teacher you love.
You have everything ahead of you, and nothing terrible will happen, because true love can withstand test of time.
I love teachers at school. Personal experience:
To the teacher
If you fell in love with a teacher, you should also think about your feeling and not be afraid to admit that in the future it can be transformed into respect, although the greatest difficulty for the guys is their desire for maximalism.
Someone can experience their love quietly, but some cannot cope with their own feelings, and the latter sometimes push them to rash acts.
If you cannot keep your feelings to yourself, you may well confess your love to the teacher - but not in front of the whole class, but best to do it tête-à-tête.
You should also not put the teacher in an uncomfortable position in front of her colleagues and other students with gifts, bouquets of flowers and other romantic manifestations - a school for a teacher, first of all, place of work.
Also, do not seek to prove your love for her - most likely, she perfectly understands your feelings.
It should also be understood that the best solution waiting for graduation. A teacher cannot afford a relationship with her student, so you need to be patient and not demand full reciprocity, even if you are pretty to her.
What should a teacher do if a student confesses his love to her? Find out from the video:
As a university teacher
Female students also quite often fall in love with their teachers, both with young graduate students and with more mature professors. First of all, you need soberly assess the situation and try to understand yourself better.
Ask yourself simple questions What do you want from a possible relationship? Will they be serious or do you allow a short romance? Is such a relationship necessary for the teacher himself?
Pay attention to the reciprocity of your feelings. Is your love for him met with an answer?
If the teacher does not reciprocate, don't be provocative, wear "club" clothes and turn his place of work into a training ground for his seduction.
In the event that he has real feelings for you, he himself, as a man, must show enough attention and resourcefulness so that, at a minimum, you meet not at the workplace, but, as quite adult people, in an informal setting.
However, it should be noted here that some men may well take advantage of this situation - think do your intentions match? Are the teacher's feelings serious enough?
How to determine the character of a person by his favorite color? Learn about it from ours.
Fell in love with the teacher. On the relationship between student and teacher:
To the teacher
If you fell in love with a teacher, also ask yourself - does she need this relationship? It should be remembered that the most important thing in love is reciprocity. Perhaps she is married and is satisfied with her family life.
The main thing is not to compromise her in front of colleagues, to treat with understanding the fact that she is in the workplace.
In your student
This is also not the rarest case. There is nothing out of the ordinary in that you feel love for an adult guy.
Love also in this case can be caused by the fact that you see the potential that a young man has - while at one time you missed something.
If you are married and your husband failed to succeed in time, this can also be a reason for falling in love. Ask yourself - does the young man reciprocate? Is he ready for a serious relationship?
If you cannot cope with your feelings, think about whether your declaration of love to him will be publicized?
Clearly separate the two concepts - work and personal life and never mix them. Do not try to attract attention and win over the student with good grades - treat him the same way as the rest. There is another time for personal relationships.
Relations with the teacher at the institute - tips:
The high school student
In this case, you you need to learn to control your feelings. Remember that you are older and with your authority, attention to him, you may well achieve the location of a high school student, but do not rush to treat him like an adult.
Try to manage your love, do not make the student a “favorite”, do not give high marks for anything and at the same time do not make unnecessarily harsh demands on him.
In order for him to feel your sympathy, it will be enough to communicate in the classroom- he will definitely notice her - and then he will decide how best to act.
And even if he wants to reciprocate, you should wait for the end of school and the student's majority.
The main thing is to remember that falling in love will pass during this time, and a few years for true love - this is a short time.
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Prospects and consequences of such relations
The first thing you should always focus on for both students and teachers is age of sexual consent is 16. Before reaching this age, refrain from such a topic, even if the love is mutual.
Also remember that a sexual relationship between a teacher and a student is an immoral act that, if publicized, will cause unanimous condemnation of others and most likely lead to the dismissal of the teacher.
All that is left for a loving teacher and student is to wait for graduation before allowing all manifestations of love between them to the fullest.
At the same time, most often love at school age ends with the understanding that this is only, nevertheless, it can have a significant impact on the choice of a partner growing up person. This should be remembered by the teacher and in no case be rude to the feelings of the students.
In the case of higher educational institutions - into the personal lives of adults no one has the right to interfere, however, a love affair in the workplace, such as for a university teacher, is unethical and can also cause condemnation.
There are many cases from life when students connected their lives with their teachers by marriage.
However, another phenomenon is also common - when teachers, in particular males, use their position in order to fulfill their natural needs. In particular, students should understand this.
As for true love, it is characterized not only by impulses, but also by a calm flow, humility with difficult temporary circumstances and expectation. It is she who will be able to resist such obstacles as time.