Any mature girl and, especially, an adult woman, knows that it is necessary to protect herself in order not to become pregnant. There are not many ways to get pregnant. Much depends on the situation, place.
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In some cases protection is necessary, in others it is not. But, it is very important to know when to use protection and when not. Although, for example, if the partner is not tested, even if there are few risks of getting pregnant, it will not be superfluous to protect yourself so as not to pick up some kind of infection. As for the moments, in each case you need to understand separately.
On forums on the Internet, you can read such a thing that your hair stands on end. A lot of nonsense. Although, there are those who believe in all this, which, of course, cannot be done, especially in cases where it is claimed that it is impossible to get pregnant, but in fact there are risks.
Often, if the partners are verified, they can have unprotected sex. And the only thing that a partner does to prevent a woman from becoming pregnant is to stop sexual intercourse during ejaculation, so that sperm does not enter the vagina, uterus, and fertilization does not occur. Many practice such sex, being sure that it is impossible to get pregnant this way. And what is their surprise when pregnancy does occur!
The fact is that even before ejaculation, even during foreplay, foreplay, a man releases lubrication. It is needed in order to make sexual intercourse more comfortable, enjoyable. But, it may even contain sperm, however, in small quantities. Despite this, getting into the vagina, spermatozoa can go further into the uterus, fertilize the egg. Therefore, the risks of getting pregnant from male lubrication, although not very high, are there. So it is not worth considering such sex as safe. And even if a man has not finished, you can get pregnant.
Right after the first time
Getting pregnant the first time is quite realistic if sexual intercourse occurred during the period of ovulation, on other days it is difficult to do.
In order not to become a parent ahead of schedule, you should carefully keep a calendar of the menstrual cycle and follow the schedule. How many days before ovulation can you get pregnant? Considering that spermatozoa retain the ability to fertilize for about 3 days, a period equal to this number of days leaves many chances to become parents.
Can you get pregnant with one ovary?
One of the ovaries may be removed for various reasons. It can be a cyst, some infectious, inflammatory diseases and not only. Usually, the fallopian tube is removed along with it. But, after all, the second ovary remains. Many women are interested in whether it is possible to get pregnant with one ovary. This is quite possible if it functions normally, like the reproductive system of a woman as a whole.
The absence of one ovary is not an obstacle for those who want to get pregnant.
It is only necessary to track the cycle, to follow in order to increase the chances of pregnancy, if, of course, such a goal is pursued. If a woman does not want to become pregnant, she needs to know that there are such chances, despite the absence of an ovary, so it is imperative to protect yourself.
During breastfeeding
There is also an opinion that feeding is also a kind of contraceptive method. This is true. But no woman is able to predict when her new batch of eggs will begin to mature and is preparing to be released. For some, the first menstruation occurs 8 months after childbirth, while for others, after 3 months, the body is ready for conception, so breastfeeding is not worth relying on.
Is it possible to get pregnant without a man from herself and masturbation?
You can read a lot on the Internet, especially from those who consider masturbation to be something forbidden, sinful. Usually these people are believers. Often you can find information that even from masturbation a woman can become pregnant. That's bullshit. In order for pregnancy to occur, an egg and sperm are needed. There are no spermatozoa in the female body. Therefore, it is impossible to get pregnant from yourself without a man, unless it is some kind of mythical immaculate conception. But, in real life, this does not happen. To the question: "Is it possible to get pregnant by hand" - the answer is unequivocal - no.
Is it possible to get pregnant without sex: from petting, without penetration or through clothes?
Petting can hardly be called sex because there is no penetration. Partners stimulate each other's erogenous zones, bringing to orgasm. They can be both completely naked and in clothes. You can't get pregnant from petting because there is no penetration. Even if the sperm got on the external female genital organs, it is unlikely that pregnancy will occur. If petting was completely in clothes, then the chances of pregnancy are reduced to zero.
There is only one way to get pregnant without a man - artificial insemination with donor sperm, but even here it is not complete without male help.
Is it possible to get pregnant in water?
It all depends on the situation. If the partners had unprotected sex in the water, and the ejaculation was not in the water, then there is every chance of getting pregnant. If the ejaculation was in the water, the risks are less. But, no one has canceled the fact that there are spermatozoa in the lubricant of a man. Therefore, even in this case, there are small risks.
If a woman was simply in the water with sperm, she definitely won’t get pregnant because the speed of spermatozoa is very low, plus bleach (if it’s a pool or bathroom) has a detrimental effect on them.
A normal man cannot get pregnant. Otherwise, this hero would have long ago received the same million dollars that Charlie Chaplin bequeathed to the man who becomes pregnant and gives birth to a child. But, there are cases when men give birth. How can a man get pregnant? If he was originally a woman and changed sex, but the female reproductive organs remained in place, he has a chance to become pregnant and bear a child, give birth to him. True, pregnancy for such “men” ends not with natural childbirth, but with a caesarean section.
It happens in pharmacies to observe a picture when a man tries to choose a test to determine pregnancy in himself. The question arises: why should men surrender if such an offensive is impossible for them? The fact is that all tests determine the presence in the female body of the hormone hCG, which is produced in pregnant women.
In men, a positive pregnancy test, or rather the detection of hCG, is a sign of disorders in the body, or rather, it is likely that a cancerous tumor has formed in his testicles.
Is it possible to get pregnant from oral and anal sex?
This is also impossible. In many women's forums you can find similar discussions, and some are sure that they get pregnant from oral sex. This is also outright bullshit.
From anal sex, this is also excluded, because it is physically impossible.
From semen from a condom?
Is it possible to get pregnant this way? But this method is quite effective and real. It is usually used by especially stubborn women who want to get pregnant for one purpose or another. Often men do not want to have children, they consciously protect themselves using the best and most effective methods known to them. And the best way is to use a condom. But, a woman can use the sperm from there after, when a man does not see it. The fact is that spermatozoa do not die immediately. For about a day, they can still live and retain the ability to fertilize. Therefore, men who do not want to have children need to be more careful and attentive.
And from a kiss?
This question may be of interest only to those who are no more than 12-13 years old. You can't get pregnant from kissing either.
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In the life of most women, sooner or later there comes a period when she realizes that she is ready to become a mother. But, unfortunately, due to some factors, this is far from being the case for everyone. So how do you get pregnant if you can't?
There are many reasons why you can't get pregnant. First of all, of course, it is necessary to pay attention to 2 fundamental factors of each person - this is nutrition and lifestyle in general.
Proper nutrition to get pregnant quickly
If a woman wants to get pregnant quickly, then she first needs to review her daily diet. Although scientists have not yet proven the effect of any specific products on reproductive function and conception in general.
It is necessary to exclude fatty, salty and add more vitamins - vegetables, fruits. Oysters will be useful, which have a beneficial effect on conception and ovulation sensitivity. Well, few people do not know that this is one of the popular aphrodisiacs. Also, for a quick pregnancy, it is advisable to start eating cereals, dairy products, lean meat and fish. In this case, it is better not to add salt, as it tends to retain water. If a woman has problems with being overweight, then first you should go on a diet a little.
For the onset of a desired pregnancy, coffee should be excluded from the list of products. Why? The answer is simple: at the cellular level, caffeine can suppress fertility due to its effects on the central nervous system. Basically, coffee is consumed just for the reason that it gives a sudden burst of vivacity. At the same time, the whole body abruptly begins to be in good shape and because of this, androgens do not have time to transform into sex hormones. Therefore, experts do not advise women planning to conceive to get involved in coffee.
Adjusting lifestyle
The human body is a complex mechanism, the organs of which are closely interconnected. Constant stress, smoking, drinking alcohol and low immunity - under the influence of all these factors, the body realizes that it is not yet ready for pregnancy. Accordingly, conception does not occur.
Therefore, to get pregnant, you first need to get in shape. As already mentioned, the first factor affecting fertilization is weight. Go in for sports and stick to a diet for a while so that your attempts to have a baby are crowned with success.
However, low weight will also not affect the upcoming pregnancy. As a rule, in women who are underweight, the menstrual cycle and ovulation can “merge” with each other, which also makes conception virtually impossible.
Should we talk about bad habits? Women who drink alcohol, abuse cigarettes and even drugs may not get pregnant at all. If the long-awaited moment does happen, then it will be dangerous to keep the fetus, both for his health and for the mother. Bad habits must also be abandoned by men who want to see themselves in the role of a future father.
When do you need to be examined by a gynecologist?
It also happens that a woman, having reached despair with the question “what to do?”, Turns to a gynecologist for help and this is the right decision.
The help of a specialist may be needed in the following cases:
- Past sexually transmitted diseases and venereal diseases.
- Current problems of the reproductive system of a woman, interfering with the normal conception and development of pregnancy.
- abortion.
- Ectopic pregnancy.
- Irregular menstrual cycle.
- The use of oral contraceptives and other hormonal drugs.
- Early or late onset of sexual activity.
Do not be embarrassed by the doctor. It is better to tell everything to the gynecologist as it is and then he will be able to help in your situation. In our time, infertility is far from a sentence. Now there are many methods to get pregnant, and experts grab at the slightest opportunity.
One of these methods is in vitro fertilization, or, in other words, IVF. An egg is taken from a woman, a sperm from a man, they are placed in a beneficial environment. Fertilization takes place there, and the fetal egg is attached to the uterine wall, after which the woman becomes pregnant.
Women's cycle - how to calculate?
When a woman begins menarche (first menstruation), then a new period begins in her life: now she is capable of childbearing. It is often advised to use the calendar method of calculating "favorable days", when the probability of conception is highest.
So, the first day of menstruation is the first day of the female cycle. It is considered from the day of the first day of the onset of menstruation to the first day of the next. A normal menstrual cycle can range from 28 to 40 days. To find out when a woman ovulates, it is necessary to calculate the average cycle length and divide it by 2. For example, if menstruation goes clearly once a month on the same day, then the cycle is 30 days. This means that the "favorable moment" comes 15 days after the arrival of menstruation.
Do not forget that 2 days before and 2 after ovulation are also good for pregnancy planning and "dangerous" regarding unwanted conception. Another name for this period is the fertile period. Now there are many tests that determine the onset of ovulation, but usually a woman herself intuitively feels her arrival. The body is designed in such a way that during this period, the lady's libido increases many times, and she becomes more attractive to the male sex.
Basal temperature - help in the process of conception
Measurement of basal temperature allows a woman to determine the level of hormones in the body. To plan pregnancy, you should start counting from the first day of the menstrual cycle every day at the same time. You need to use the same thermometer. In addition, it is necessary to record your own feelings on this day: depression, calmness, joy, etc.
Typically, basal body temperature is measured in the mouth, rectum, or vagina. For women, the latter method is preferable. Measurement is made immediately after waking up, without unnecessary movements. It is also impossible to talk at this moment.
The onset of ovulation is indicated by an increase in temperature by about 0.4 degrees. Normally, this figure is 37.2. A reading below 37 is usually in the first half of the cycle, when a woman has more estrogen than progesterone.
It is necessary to constantly measure the basal temperature already after the onset of pregnancy in order to avoid further problems with its course. This is especially worth paying attention to if a woman has previously had a spontaneous miscarriage. If the temperature is below the norm by 0.8-1 degrees, then it is necessary to consult a doctor in order to exclude fetal fading and possible deviations.
Poses for conceiving a child
So how do you get pregnant if you can't? Approach the problem from the very beginning. Sexologists recommend a whole list of positions for successful conception.
First of all, it is worth noting that they are not suitable for everyone, only for women with a traditional form of the uterus without any deviations:
- Missionary position. In this position, the male seed immediately enters the uterus, and from there into the tubes, and if the number of viable spermatozoa is sufficient, then fertilization occurs.
- "Doggy-style". Again, in this position, the seed also goes directly to the cervix. Experts are used to noticing that in this position there is a great chance to conceive a boy, since the fastest sperm will get access to the eggs.
- On the side. The woman bends her knees towards her and lies on her side, and the man behind her. Friction and the close proximity of the bodies can ensure rapid conception, especially if a woman ovulates that day.
As practice shows, for the onset of pregnancy it is necessary to have sex regularly, but not constantly. Otherwise, the production of viable spermatozoa will decrease in a man, and all attempts to conceive a child will be in vain.
Do not rule out discomfort. Also, women with structural features of the uterus (bend, etc.) should have sex in those positions in which they are comfortable. It is complete trust and pleasure in the process that will increase the chances of success.
Preparations in traditional medicine
As practice shows, most of the problems that cause infertility can be resolved using the methods offered by traditional medicine.
Doctors distinguish several ways:
- Hormonal preparations. Often a woman cannot become pregnant due to hormonal failure. An experienced specialist selects for the patient a set of drugs aimed at establishing a normal hormonal background, due to which conception occurs.
- Surgical intervention. If pathological processes occur in the reproductive system (the formation of adhesions, fibroids, cysts, etc.), then it is necessary to start therapy as soon as possible, which affects the patency of the tubes and the ability of the uterus to bear a child. If hormonal and drug treatment did not give any results, then an operation is prescribed to excise adhesions and other formations.
- ECO. As already mentioned, in vitro fertilization is suitable for those women who have not been helped by previous treatments. The operation is not cheap, but the percentage of that, then after it the long-awaited pregnancy will still come, is higher.
Folk remedies
There are also many traditional medicines that help you get pregnant quickly. However, doctors do not recommend resorting to them without special need and consultation. Some may not only not work, but also cause significant harm to the expectant mother, forever depriving her of the ability to bear children.
Of the neutral methods of conception, it is worth noting the following:
- Positive attitude. If a woman is happy and satisfied with herself, then, as the ancient healers claimed, her chances of becoming pregnant increase. Yes, and from a modern point of view, this item will be useful. Indeed, with depression and stress, the body is oppressed and independently determines that now is not the time to bear a baby.
- Moon phase. It happens that for a girl a favorable period of conception is considered in that lunar cycle when she was born herself.
- Herbal decoctions. For example, sage. A teaspoon of a dry flower is poured into a mug of hot water. This tea should be taken for a couple of weeks. The bonus will be the miraculous effect of sage on the immunity of the expectant mother.
How to quickly get pregnant with a second child?
Many women after the birth of their first child, when trying to conceive a second baby, face such a problem as secondary infertility.
It may be due to the following factors:
- Hormonal disbalance.
- Transferred diseases of the reproductive system and vagina.
- Damage to the endometrium during an abortion, as a result of which the fetal egg cannot attach to the wall of the uterus.
- Biological incompatibility of partners. Scientists still cannot fully explain this phenomenon, but, unfortunately, it takes place.
- Age from 35 years old.
It makes no difference whether previous pregnancies ended in childbirth or not. To diagnose secondary infertility, you must consult a doctor to exclude the possibility of diseases and pathologies. If they are, the doctor will prescribe the appropriate treatment or give a referral for surgery.
Do not despair, while a woman is in childbearing age, she still has a chance to become pregnant with a second child. It is necessary to consult a specialist in time and reconsider your lifestyle. The same should be done to the partner from whom the lady wants to give birth to a baby.
Signs and superstitions - the most popular myths about the conception of a baby
Pregnancy and childbirth are shrouded in many myths, most of which originate from the time of Ancient Russia.
Here is a list of the most popular ones:
- Pregnant women are forbidden to cut their hair, otherwise there will be a risk of premature birth. Scientists have long denied the connection between childbearing and hair, but a neat appearance for a woman, albeit in position, certainly will not be superfluous.
- A woman needs to hide the fact that she is carrying a baby under her heart for as long as possible, otherwise he can be jinxed.
- You can not look at terrible and frightening things, otherwise the child may be born ugly.
- If fluff appears on the stomach, then a boy will be born. The appearance of vellus hair indicates an increased content of male hormones in the body, but even women with similar vegetation often had girls.
- Before the birth of a child, you can not buy baby clothes, a stroller and an arena. All this is nothing more than prejudice. Even in ancient times, it was customary to attribute most problems to something inexplicable. Try not to pay attention to it.
- You should watch your words: do not swear and do not say “I am barren” about yourself. This myth takes place in real life, as a person forms a mood with his thoughts, which can be positive or negative.
- Pregnant women need to eat for two. To some extent, this is also true. Since now a woman needs to worry not only about herself, but also about the child, who receives most of the nutrients received by the expectant mother from food.
Is it possible to get pregnant during menstruation is a dilemma that torments many women of reproductive age. Men also ask this question because they are afraid of an unplanned conception. At the same time, couples think that menstruation is the most reliable natural method of contraception. In fact, everything is not so. It turns out that you can get pregnant during your period. But every couple has an unplanned conception for different reasons.
Menstruation and ovulation: not as far as it seems
To understand whether it is possible to get pregnant on the last day of menstruation or in the first hours of bleeding, you need to have an idea about the menstrual cycle. It is divided into several phases, characterized by the production of certain hormones:
- menstruation (the process of cleansing the uterus from the internal epithelium);
- follicular phase, in medical language - follicular (the time when there is an active growth of dominant and an increase in the number of antral follicles);
- ovulatory (time of rupture of the largest follicle and release of the egg into the abdominal cavity);
- luteal (active preparation of the mucous layer of the uterus for implantation).
If conception does not occur, then the release of some hormones is replaced by others, and the next menstruation occurs. Gynecological theory suggests that conception occurs at the time of ovulation or within 1-2 days after it. Logically reasoning, we can come to the conclusion that it is impossible to get pregnant during menstruation. However, not every girl can reliably say when she will ovulate.
The maturation process is quite complex and variable. The standard cycle of an average woman lasts an average of 28 days. The release of the egg occurs on the 13-15th day. The second phase lasts 12-14 days. In healthy women, this period remains unchanged even with the lengthening of the cycle or its shorter duration.
So, for a girl with a monthly period of 21 days (which is also the norm), ovulation will occur already on day 6-8. Most patients of reproductive age have a regular monthly cycle, but its duration may vary under the influence of internal and external factors.
Is it possible to have sex in "these days"
Statistics show that sexual intercourse during menstrual bleeding excludes more than half of couples. Is it possible to get pregnant during menstruation in this case is a rhetorical question. Lack of intercourse is the most reliable means of contraception.
Gynecologists tell their patients that having sex during menstrual bleeding is not only unaesthetic, but also dangerous. Other partners prefer to change traditional sex to anal on the days of menstruation, which also makes it impossible to get pregnant.
Several days of menstruation from the entire cycle are necessary to cleanse the uterus. During this period, the genital organ, under the influence of hormones, rejects the endometrium, which is needed for the attachment of a fertilized cell. During menstruation, the mucosa is “bare”, it becomes more susceptible to infections. If during sex there is a hit of harmful microorganisms, then the inflammatory process will begin. In the future, a woman will face endometritis, adnexitis, metritis or other diseases.
You should not have sex even in the last days of menstruation, as additional excitement and an increase in the contractile function of the genital organ can cause bleeding. The presumed cause of endometriosis is regular sexual intercourse during menstruation. At the same time, blood mucus is thrown through the fallopian tubes into the peritoneal cavity, where it subsequently begins to grow.
If menstruation is coming, then when having sex, you must follow the rules:
- a woman has a permanent partner;
- a condom is used during intercourse;
- the couple does not have sexually transmitted infections;
- the woman does not have reproductive diseases.
Is it possible to conceive a child with bleeding
You should talk to a gynecologist about whether a girl can get pregnant during her period. If a young man is interested in a question, then he should study the theory of fertilization in detail, and not rely on a lucky chance. To think that conception during menstruation is excluded is at least unreasonable. During the entire period of bleeding, there are more and less dangerous days, but the possibility of pregnancy cannot definitely be ruled out in any of them.
On the 1st day of a monthly bleeding, the chances that the spermatozoa will reach their goal are negligible. At this moment, the vaginal environment is the most aggressive, it does not allow male gametes to survive and move in such conditions.
On day 2, the bleeding becomes intense. Even if unprotected intercourse takes place, the chances of pregnancy will remain close to zero. With another portion of blood, the spermatozoa will simply be washed out of the vagina, and they will not reach the uterus.
On day 3, the likelihood of unexpected conception during menstruation will begin to increase. It will increase every hour. We should not forget that an unexpected failure of the regular cycle can occur right now.
Male sex cells are able to survive in the female body for quite a long time. The favorable microflora of the vagina and the consistency of the discharge allows the spermatozoa to “stay alive” and wait in the wings for up to a week. Therefore, sexual intercourse on the 5th day of menstruation and ovulation on the 7th day give a great chance of conception.
Risk of getting pregnant in the last days of your period
If you exclude the failure of the cycle and the early onset of ovulation, then you can still get pregnant at the end of your period. Moreover, with each passing hour, the probability will increase. There are several reasons for the birth of intrauterine life at the time of bleeding.
Two out of 10 patients who became pregnant during their period experienced re-ovulation. This condition occurs due to hormonal surges, and also occurs in women prone to the birth of twins. It should be remembered whether there were cases in your family of the appearance of two or three children at once. It turns out that one egg is released on time, and the other ovulation is unplanned.
It is necessary to protect yourself even during menstruation, as pregnancy can occur due to hormonal failure. This happens with stress or, on the contrary, from violent positive emotions. Some medications can affect the production of hormones. If we take into account that sexual intercourse occurred on day 4, and spermatozoa retain their viability for a week, then conception can occur on day 11 of the cycle.
Menstruation + COC - a 100% guarantee?
Is it possible to get pregnant during menstruation if a woman is taking oral contraceptives? It would seem that the answer to this question is obvious. However, in this situation, fertilization can occur.
Any hormonal contraceptives must be taken from the first day of spotting. The manufacturer allows you to start drinking a contraceptive from the 1st to the 5th day of the menstrual cycle. At the same time, it recommends using additional barrier methods of protection during the first month. Women often do not pay attention to such a nuance. Relying on the effectiveness of the hormonal agent, they have sex during menstruation and become pregnant.
Illusion of menstruation
Another reason that explains the compatibility of menstruation and pregnancy is called the illusion of menstruation. A woman mistakes spotting for the start of a new cycle, has sex and is pregnant. Bleeding can have different causes: infectious or inflammatory. Blood discharge in some cases is explained by erosion and even ovulation.
Periods during pregnancy?
The girls are worried about whether it can be. After all, in this case it is not clear whether the conception took place. The answer of doctors to this question is ambiguous.
You can not call menstruation bleeding that occurs during pregnancy. Rather, such discharge indicates a threat of interruption, detachment of the fetal egg, outpouring of a hematoma, or other pathologies. Despite solid evidence and medical theory, some women report that they were menstruating throughout the gestational period. How reliable these testimonies are is impossible to say.
It is possible to determine that conception occurred during menstrual bleeding in the usual ways for every woman:
- conduct home testing from the first day of the next delay or 2-3 weeks after intercourse;
- perform an ultrasound examination 30 days after contact;
- within 3 weeks, measure basal temperature with an anal thermometer;
- donate blood to determine the amount of chorionic gonadotropin;
- visit a gynecologist and undergo an examination.
Summing up all the information, we can make several statements:
- it is possible to get pregnant during menstruation;
- the minimum probability of conception is in the first two days of heavy bleeding;
- with a decrease in secretions, the chance of fertilization increases;
- immediately after menstruation, you can become pregnant with a high probability;
- conception is impossible if sex was anal.
In women with irregular cycles, as well as for women who do not monitor the frequency and duration of their menstruation, the risk of an unplanned pregnancy increases significantly.
Awareness in sexual life is no less important than a diploma of higher education. So, some consider interrupted sexual intercourse a reliable method of contraception. Others are interested in whether it is possible to get pregnant and what are the chances if he does not end in me.
Coitus interruptus
Coitus interruptus (PPA) is the termination of intercourse immediately before the onset of orgasm in a man. That is, ejaculation occurs outside the woman's vagina. This method of contraception is ancient and very common. Even today, despite the abundance of various protective methods, it is popular.
What are the chances of getting pregnant if you weren't finished?
It would seem that the PPA method should be guaranteed to protect against unwanted pregnancy. But it's not. So, can a girl get pregnant if the guy doesn't cum inside? It turns out that the probability of conception is 30%. This is a high figure.
To reduce it, doctors recommend using PPA for a few days after your period and a few days before it. On these days, ovulation will most likely not occur. On other days, a woman should understand that even without finishing inside, you can get pregnant.
Thus, to the question, can a woman become pregnant if the sexual partner (man) has not finished in you, the answer will be unequivocal - yes. Why?
The source of spermatozoa can be not only sperm, but also pre-seminal fluid. It is known that only one nimble sperm is enough for fertilization. Therefore, even such an amount that is contained in the pre-seminal fluid is enough in excess.
Affairs of the Heart
That is why many girls wonder how they could get pregnant if every day during sex the man pulls out the penis and the sperm does not get inside.
An even greater risk of becoming pregnant is if several sexual acts are performed during the day. In this case, the man still has active sperm from the first time, they, together with the pre-seminal fluid, are removed from the urethra and enter the woman's vagina during sex.
If a partner cums on a woman's stomach or back
Some women are interested in what is the probability of becoming pregnant if the man did not finish inside, but had time to stick out the genitals in time for ejaculation to occur on the girl's stomach or back. This question is often heard during a consultation with a gynecologist, when girls, without hiding their emotions, discover the first signs of pregnancy. And there are many such cases.
This is quite real, since during interrupted intercourse, a man instinctively tries not to interrupt intercourse for as long as possible in order to prolong the pleasure for himself and his partner. As a result, it turns out to pull out the penis too late, when the ejaculation has already begun. A small amount of sperm still enter the vagina. This is enough for conception.
Even if a man removes his penis in time, some spermatozoa are present in the lubricant. Therefore, interrupted intercourse cannot be called a reliable method of contraception.
The chance of fertilization if the man did not cum
If a guy doesn't cum during sex, is it possible to get pregnant? In this case, the probability of fertilization is extremely low, but still the risks remain. Unfortunately, this is a complex question and it is impossible to answer it unambiguously.
Appropriate studies on this topic have not been conducted, and gynecologists are only able to build hypotheses on this subject, believing that there is a possibility of penetration of spermatozoa from the pre-seminal fluid.
Is it possible to get pregnant with a finger with sperm in secret from her husband
Many are interested in what is the probability of getting pregnant if you have not ejaculated inside? This applies to women who dream of having a child, and their sexual partners are against it for some reason. A variety of methods are used, for example, attempts to bring sperm into the vagina on the finger of the hand.
Is it possible. But for this to happen, many conditions must be met:
- sperm should be collected immediately after intercourse, as well as introduced into the vagina no later than 10 minutes;
- sperm must be injected deep enough;
- sperm should be sufficient, and the quality of the seed material should be high;
- on this day, a woman must ovulate so that the egg can meet the “guest”;
In any case, trying to fertilize with a finger is a difficult task. Even under favorable circumstances, the chances of success are minimal.
The main thing is to trust each other
Nature did not provide for such a method of conception. What to say when many couples do not know how to get pregnant, even having sex every day.
Conception from a syringe
Is it possible to get pregnant if the introduction of seed material into the vagina from a syringe. What should be done secretly from the husband if he does not want a child?
- consult a gynecologist and take all the necessary tests to know the exact day of ovulation;
- purchase a 10cc syringe, collect sperm from a condom immediately after intercourse and gently insert it into the vagina;
- after insertion, raise your legs up - this is the optimal position for conception.
There are many other ways of fertilization. One of them is artificial insemination. To carry it out you need:
- collect partner's sperm in a jar and freeze;
- remove from the freezer and take the material that the woman collected to the doctor;
- Your doctor will perform a sperm infusion on the day you ovulate. One procedure may not be enough.
In the same way, a man can become a sperm donor if he cannot get pregnant naturally.
When using this method, you need to remember that oxygen is detrimental to spermatozoa, and in adverse conditions they are viable for 15-20 minutes. Therefore, you need to act quickly and make sure that there is no oxygen in the jar.
What happens if a guy cums inside a girl?
And what will happen if the guy finished once inside the partner? This question is often heard on the forums. The answer to it depends on what period of the cycle the sexual intercourse took place.
Lingered by each other forever
Theoretically, a woman is not able to conceive at the beginning and end of the cycle, and the woman's egg is released from the follicle somewhere in the middle of the cycle. But every woman has her own day of ovulation, and sometimes it happens that not one egg comes out, but several. That is, the probability of conception is always there.
To avoid unwanted pregnancy, in the first 72 hours after intercourse, doctors recommend drinking the hormonal drug Postinor. It is better to take it right after intercourse.
Contraceptive methods
We have already understood that PAP is not a reliable method of contraception. And given that there are a lot of modern methods, it is worth considering how to choose a high-quality method of contraception and preserve women's health and nerves.
Common methods of contraception:
The right way
Against the background of these methods, coitus interruptus gives a guarantee of only 73%. Along with popularity, it remains the most ineffective.
Which method of protection is better, the gynecologist will tell you. After a series of tests, he recommends taking hormonal pills or using other methods.
Contraceptive safety
Even with the methods of contraception described above, there is a chance of getting pregnant. For example:
- if not immediately before sex, the partner puts on a condom, but waits until the erection increases. In this case, part of the spermatozoa is able to penetrate the vagina;
- if a woman, along with hormonal drugs, takes medications that neutralize the effect of the former;
- after the installation of the intrauterine device, it is displaced in the uterine cavity, or its expiration date passes.
Pros and cons of PPA
What are the benefits of PPA?
- it is available. There is not always a condom at hand, and oral contraceptives are generally contraindicated for some women;
- when using barrier methods, the sensitivity of the genital organs decreases;
- PPA is safe compared to taking hormonal drugs, which have side effects;
- the method is simple, while not everyone understands the mechanism of action of other methods of protection.
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What are the cons of PPA?
- low efficiency. Even if a man has not finished in a woman, he is not able to control the pre-semen. According to experts, the practice of PPA during the year indicates the problem of infertility in a married couple;
- the PPA method in case of casual sexual intercourse is fraught with infection with sexually transmitted diseases and sexually transmitted infections. After all, there is a risk of getting infected, even if you do not cum in a partner, but stop the act before ejaculation;
- if a man constantly practices interrupted intercourse, there is a risk of developing early erectile dysfunction and a decrease in libido, or to a situation where a man cannot complete sexual intercourse by ejaculation. This is due to the lack of natural and complete satisfaction for a long time. If, due to PPA, an orgasm does not occur in a woman, this is fraught with the development of frigidity. This fact forces us to think not about what is the chance of getting pregnant if the girl does not finish during sex, but how to make her finish.
What to do to know the exact result
It takes some time to get pregnant. Conception usually occurs within 72 hours after the sperm is ingested. Pregnancy can be diagnosed no earlier than 6-8 days after PPA. During this period, the fertilized egg is implanted in the wall of the uterus.
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After the egg is fixed on the wall of the uterus, the level of hCG in the woman's blood rises. To know if conception has occurred, you need to donate blood for hCG in the antenatal clinic.
It makes sense to do pregnancy tests a couple of days after a missed period. Wait for the days when there should be discharge and do a test some time after them.
The main advice doctors give to couples who practice interrupted intercourse is not to use it too often. It negatively affects the health of the male genital area and the state of the nervous system of the partner. The constant lack of a portion of pleasure leads to irritability, discontent and bad mood after the end of the act.
: Borovikova Olga
gynecologist, ultrasound doctor, geneticist
Some get pregnant on the first try, while others try for years, but everything turns out to be unsuccessful. What is the reason?
If you want to improve your chances of having a baby, don't make the common mistakes that we will tell you about.
1. Worry too often
Stress is one of the main factors that reduce the likelihood of conception. If the level of cortisol, the stress hormone, rises in a woman's body, this can negatively affect her fertility. American scientists observed 400 couples who were trying to become parents, and came to the following conclusions: if a woman has a high level of alpha-amylase (a stress indicator), her chances of getting pregnant are reduced by 29% compared to those who have this indicator within the normal range. Experts believe that under the influence of chronic stress, the production of hormones that ensure a stable cycle decreases.
If you're having trouble getting pregnant, try to relax and let go of the situation for a while. Try meditation, yoga - it has asanas that improve blood flow to the pelvis and thus stimulate the synthesis of necessary hormones. This has a positive effect on the ability to conceive. Stop constantly planning a pregnancy. Instead, just remind yourself daily that this is a miracle that happens very often.
2. Don't do too much or too little
A large number of couples are convinced that the chances of conceiving a baby will greatly increase if they do not have sex for a week, “saving” sperm. It's a delusion. After a week of abstinence, spermatozoa become much less mobile. Therefore, doctors advise having sex daily or every other day during the week before ovulation and the day it occurs. More frequent intimacy can negatively affect the ability of sperm to fertilize, and more rare creates a risk of missing the conception window.
It has been scientifically proven that regular sex life helps to stabilize the cycle: the male body releases hormones that affect the female reproductive system. Therefore, with regular sex, more estrogen is produced.
3. Use dubious methods
Although we live in the 21st century, many women continue to douche, believing in the miracle of this method. It seems that there is logic in this: from infections, malnutrition, bad habits, the environment in the vagina becomes acidic, and the sperm in it dies and cannot fertilize the egg. Therefore, many begin to introduce a weak soda solution so that the environment becomes alkaline and favorable for conception.
Doctors do not support douching: along with harmful microorganisms, baking soda destroys beneficial ones, violating the natural pH of the vagina. There is still a risk of exacerbation of inflammatory processes, which can cause damage, erosion of the cervix, which can often be identified only on examination by a gynecologist.
4. Make mistakes in calculations
The most common mistake is the incorrect determination of the day of ovulation. In most women, it occurs in the middle of the cycle, but this applies to women with a 28-32 day cycle. Ovulation usually occurs 14 days before your period starts. Therefore, if you have a 24-day cycle, then ovulation will occur on day 10. If your cycle is noticeably longer, say 42 days, then it can be assumed that you are ovulating less often, not in every cycle. In this case, and also if you have an irregular cycle (in this case, ovulation can be either on day 6 or on day 21), or you do not remember when your last period was, forget these rules. Here you can not do without an ovulation test, with which you can easily find out when you have a conception window.
Often women make another mistake - they count the beginning of the cycle not from the first day of menstruation. The day of the onset of menstruation is the one on which the blood begins to flow, not the day before and not the day after. It is very important to know the exact day of the beginning of the cycle, because for a successful conception, the count goes literally to the clock.
5. Blame yourself
With unsuccessful attempts to get pregnant, infertility on the part of the woman is usually assumed. Only in reality both partners have the same degree of responsibility. According to statistics, men are infertile in 40% of cases, women in another 40%, and in the remaining 20%, unsuccessful attempts to get pregnant are due to partner compatibility problems. Therefore, do not panic ahead of time: on average, a healthy couple needs from 6 months to 1 year to conceive.
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6. Try to fit everything on schedule
Pregnancy cannot be accurately planned. Although healthy couples usually need from 6 months to a year to conceive, sometimes the first six months a woman takes only to normalize the cycle, which has gone astray due to birth control. Until the cycle becomes regular, there will be no ovulation. So, if after 6 months the menstrual cycle has not returned to normal or you are not sure that you are ovulating, be sure to go to the gynecologist.
7. Hurry
For many, the assertion that after sex a woman needs to lie on her back for 20 minutes with raised buttocks is sarcastic. But, according to doctors, it increases the chances of getting pregnant by 80%. So do not neglect this method.
8. Ignore unrest for which there is a reason
Consulting a doctor is not paranoia. There are situations when you should not ignore what is bothering you, because it is not only about you, but also about the unborn baby. It is possible that your cycle has always been irregular, and this is the reason why you cannot get pregnant. Or maybe you have some kind of illness, and you want to make sure that this does not threaten the health of the unborn baby.
If you are worried or unsure about something, see a specialist. He will explain to you what surprises and difficulties you may encounter. If you then have difficulty trying to conceive, you will know what to do.
9. Can't give up bad habits
At least a year before the planned pregnancy, you should quit bad habits. Doctors around the world warn: the first trimester is the most important stage in the formation of the body of the unborn baby. Even a meager dose of alcohol can cause him irreparable harm.
Some women drink alcohol in the early stages of pregnancy, not realizing their interesting position. So, if you are not using protection, either give up alcohol and cigarettes, or reduce their use to a minimum.
10. Don't take care of your partner's health
What harms your fertility can also negatively affect a man's ability to conceive. Tobacco, alcohol, unhealthy diet degrade the quality and reduce the amount of sperm. According to research, smoking and alcohol damage spermatozoa at the chromosome level. Considering that a complete renewal of sperm takes 3 months, at least for this period your partner should give up bad habits. Make sure that his diet is balanced, including selenium, vitamins C and E - they are very useful for men's health.
The effect of temperature on a man's ability to conceive has not been proven. American experts believe that it is not essential for the work of the male genital organs. However, some doctors advise against frequent hot baths, even if the man has no problems with sperm quality.
A number of studies indicate that scrotum temperature rises when a person holds a laptop on their lap for a long time. Other experts have found that mobile phone radiation can reduce a man's ability to conceive, especially if the gadget is in a trouser pocket. Yet a clear relationship between warmth and male fertility has not been established.