We are used to believing that a woman is the undisputed leader in hiding her true feelings and intentions. According to most women, the reason for this is the dignity of women, which we are trying not to drop in this way. But, as life shows, men in matters of love are also not so simple and predictable. They use various tricks and tricks to hide their love and often show indifference or even hostility to the woman they like. Therefore, the question: how to understand that a man hides his feelings is not at all idle for many women.
There are many signs that indicate a man is in love, they just need to be seen. And for this, you just need to carefully observe the behavior and reaction of the man you like in various situations. So you can easily determine what is in his heart and mind.
But before proceeding to describe them, I propose to find out: why should a man hide his feelings for a woman?
Why do men hide their feelings and portray complete indifference?
Everything is extremely simple. The society in which we live, upbringing, convinced us that the manifestation of emotions is normal only for women. The manifestation of any, even very pleasant and desirable feelings for a man means to be weak, vulnerable, inferior. And not only in the eyes of others, but also in their own.
It turns out that men are more dependent on the opinions of friends, other men and women. That is why they will "shoot back to the last", hiding their feelings so as not to feel dependent and not look weak.
How do men hide their feelings?
It is not uncommon to see how a self-confident handsome man suddenly hides his eyes and shows embarrassment, and an inconspicuous nerd suddenly appears as a bold and cheeky male, starting a fight or lighting up a nightclub.
Or a quick-tempered choleric suddenly shows a touching concern for someone, and an insecure man suddenly defends the weak, throwing himself on a brutal hooligan.
The eloquent one is suddenly at a loss what to say, and the quiet introvert tries to solve the problems of the girl he likes, literally bombarding her with advice.
As a rule, there is only one diagnosis - the guy is in love. At the same time, he hides his feelings under various masks.
Demonstration of indifference
Yes, this method seems to many representatives of the stronger sex the most reliable. Feigned indifference does not allow you to “drop” your male pride, but this is on the external level, and inside it is an escape from the fear of rejection or rejection by a girl. Yes, it protects against emotional pain in some way, but the fear only intensifies.
And such behavior sometimes bears fruit: it is demonstrative indifference that can attract the attention and interest of the girl he likes: why is he ignoring me? What is so-so in it? Everything, interest is awakened, the goal is achieved.
Increased attention to other women
Reception is really working. Arousing interest in himself, and often the jealousy of a girl, the guy achieves his goal - she NOTICED him! He stood out from the crowd of fans, became not like everyone else. Now it’s not so scary to drive up to the chosen one, there are more chances to win her.
Aggression or ostentatious hostility
This is how guys who are insecure behave more often. They are very afraid of rejection from the girl, so they try to mask their feelings for her most carefully. Male psychology claims that immature personalities behave this way, stuck at the level of development of a teenager who wants to show his dominance, but does not know how to do it correctly.
In this case, if the guy is interesting to you, you should pay attention to other signs that may indicate his hidden feelings for you.
How to understand the hidden feelings of a man
But, if a man does not show ostentatious indifference or hostility, how do you know how he feels about you? How to recognize a man in love?
Quite simply - pay attention to his body: eyes, gestures, habits. The body is not a language, it usually does not lie. And start with the eyes.
The look of a man
It is not in vain that the psychology of relationships advises to look into the eyes of a person, so you inspire confidence in yourself and what you say. After all, if a person is pleasant to you, you literally cannot take your eyes off him. And a man in love is no exception. The reverse is also true.
The look of a man is sometimes very eloquent. If a man is sure that the woman he likes is not watching him, he examines her, literally admiring the curves of the body, her movements, etc. Some men, on the contrary, cast sidelong glances, surreptitiously, imperceptibly, believing that it is indecent to keep looking at it for a long time. Therefore, watching a man, you can easily notice his gaze on yourself quite often.
Sometimes a man in love is given out by dilated pupils. It's no secret that love, passion, acts on a person like a drug. This happens under the influence of endorphin, the hormone of happiness, which is released due to strong hidden feelings.
Embrace
Hugs also often show that a man has strong hidden feelings for a woman. A man shows the depth of his feelings by hugging a woman from behind. So he subconsciously demonstrates the seriousness of his feelings and intentions. After all, the back is one of the weak spots. So he shows that he is quite capable of protecting you from life's adversities.
touch
Physical contact for a man in love is very important. Often he involuntarily touches a woman, her arm, shoulder, hand, etc. This is the “attraction” of his body, which is difficult for him to control. Although most often he tries to portray the "accident" of such touches, because. I'm not sure about the reciprocal feelings of a woman. Therefore, pay attention to how he “accidentally” touches you while walking down the corridor, or touches your palm, holding out coffee, turns out to be quite close to you in the elevator, or, going down the stairs, again “accidentally” covers your palm with his . All these are signs of his love.
Pose of a man
Noticing the woman he likes, the man draws in his stomach, straightens his shoulders and chest, trying to appear taller and slimmer. We inherited these signs from animals that behave in a similar way in the wild during the mating season. Task: to appear taller, stronger, more attractive. If not an alpha male, then at least bigger and stronger than usual.
The man's body turns towards the woman he likes, while he tries to spread his legs wider in order to take a more stable position in space. After all, marriage games are a kind of duel during which you need to stand firmly on your feet.
Many men, when communicating with a woman, keep their hands in their pockets, while the thumbs of his hands are outside. This demonstration is not only erotic, but primarily hierarchical. This is how a man demonstrates his dominance, strengthening his authority.
Stroking objects
At the first, he often cannot afford to touch the woman he likes, so he is forced to stroke small objects: the stem of a glass, a key chain, a cup handle, etc. This is a subconscious desire, indicating his excitement and desire to touch, stroke and caress his chosen one.
These are signs of the body by which one can understand the hidden feelings of a man.
And how does a man in love behave?
Loud talking
When a man is in love, one way to get a woman's attention is to talk louder than usual. In this way, he tries to attract the attention of a woman dear to her heart with his jokes, phrases, laughter and statements. This is reminiscent of the roar of a male in the wild during mating games. But it is quite suitable for distinguishing his attitude towards you.
Jealousy
Jealousy, open or hidden, always indicates a man's indifference to you. This is one of the most obvious signs of a man's love. As soon as he sees a competitor, a man uses more obvious ways to attract the attention of a woman he likes or shows open aggression towards a rival.
A man hides his feelings, how to understand this?
A man hides his feelings, how else to understand this?
This will be eloquently told by actions and deeds unusual for him: a silent person suddenly becomes too talkative, and a talkative one becomes closed. But that's not all. A slight trembling of the voice, a sparkle in the eyes, a shifty look, small pleasant surprises, and, of course, the changed appearance of the man also testifies to his love.
But still, the main sign of a man’s hidden feelings will be his actions - this is the most eloquent and real proof of a man’s attitude towards you! And they are known to speak for themselves.
Good luck in love!
NATA CARLINYou have been talking with a guy for a long time, you are connected, but he still does not tell you about love. Or maybe he never will. Not because he doesn’t love, but because, in the opinion of men, “everyone” is not serious. He knows that you are dear to him, and that's enough!
Therefore, the behavior and attitude of a man towards you is easier to decipher by his actions.
In every man with whom the girl's life paths intersect, she sees a potential partner. But not everything is so simple, full-fledged relationships are possible only where mutual love, understanding, patience and respect live. When, he idolizes her, protects her from disappointments, protects, every minute to be near and touch this perfection. If you are a member, the man simply rejoices at the meeting, there is not that twinkle in his eyes. If he sees in you only a lover, then he expresses only a certain desire.
A man can decide which of the women he has a feeling of love for, but for this he needs too long a time. He thinks, checks his feelings, wins the object of his attention, realizes the fact that he can no longer imagine life without this woman.
How to determine the attitude of a man towards me
There are a lot of ways to understand what you really mean to a particular man. We list some of them:
Other women.
Terminating relationships with other ladies, a man makes it clear that you are the only one for him who can claim his attention.
Family and friends.
Did your man introduce you to his friends and then to his parents? This is great news! You are on your way to becoming his life partner for years to come. Of course, if the phrase does not sound: "Meet me, it's just my girlfriend." A man will never introduce a girl to his parents if he does not truly love her.
Intuition.
Not a single woman has yet complained that her. This natural ability of women is often ridiculed by men. And in vain! A woman always understands how a guy treats her, she just needs words as evidence. Remember the saying that women love with their ears? This is exactly what we are talking about now.
Therefore, turn on the paranormal "I", and monitor the behavior of your man. To tell you about his love, he must:
hug you often;
Kiss with rapture;
To delve into the ups and downs of your life, and participate in it.
Some argue that love texts are necessary as proof of feelings, but this is doubtful. If a man does not know how to write such letters, it turns out that he does not love?
Ask for advice from a woman you trust - friends, mothers, sisters. Listen to the opinion of someone who can see your relationship from the outside. Do not rely on the fact that the adviser will give an accurate description of your relationship. But visible from the side. If a young man behaves indecently towards you, it is noticeable to others.
A loving man does not need to look for a reason for a gift. He will not wait for a reminder that you love daisies. These same daisies will be waiting for you every day in the office, in the front door handle, etc.
Watch how a man looks at you. In his eyes you will read the answers to your questions. If his gaze lingers on you for a long time, the man looks inquisitively and piercingly - he reads reciprocal feelings in your eyes. Otherwise, the shifty eyes of the guy, who strive to “look” under the passing skirts, are a sign that the man did not choose anyone.
Affectionate "names".
As a rule, men do not like to express feelings in public. However, in private, some of them do not think it is shameful. Therefore, "seals", "bunnies", "fish" are not representatives of the fauna of your house, but an expression of his love for you.
Your opinion.
If you are dear to a man, he listens to your opinion. Try to hint to the man that you are not, and offer help in choosing a new one. If he happily agrees, it means that it is important for him to know what you think of him and he wants to get help from you in a matter that he does not understand.
A loving man takes care of you. He is not indifferent to how warmly you are dressed today, whether you ate at lunch or not, whether you have a temperature or you have already recovered. He will definitely take part in correcting the situation:
Will bring you a sandwich and coffee if you haven't had time to eat;
Throw a jacket over his shoulders on a cool evening;
Pour hot tea with raspberries.
He will never bring you to tears, he loves you too much for that. Will not allow anyone around. Will come to your defense even if you are wrong.
The appearance of a man.
It's no secret that a man in love tries to show his best side.
At the same time, he is proud of himself, and tries to please you.
Love or love.
Love arises from falling in love and feeling affection for a dear person. There are three stages of falling in love: the state of being in love, the official status of the couple, and true love. So, without going through these stages, a true feeling will not arise. If you are in the third period of a relationship, then, as a rule, you are married.
If you see that a man is giving you signs of attention, and you do not reciprocate, he will stop insisting. Men also react to the manifestation of feelings about themselves. It is also important for them to know whether you like it or not.
March 1, 2014, 15:27Often a woman puzzles herself for a long time in search of an answer to the question of whether a man likes her. There are many signs that a guy likes you, you just need to be able to see them. As a rule, lovers know how to carefully disguise themselves, but a keen eye will not miss signs of true affection and tender feelings.
It happens that gentlemen hide their indifferent attitude towards the girl, portraying ostentatious indifference and voicing sharp jokes.
They can behave this way even when the guy likes you very much and he is ready to take you down the aisle. It would be much easier for young inexperienced young ladies to choose a line of behavior with the male sex if the guys did not have this habit of keeping silent and directly reported their interests.
Fortunately, there are a number of signs that a man likes a woman. Looking closely at how a guy behaves in communication with a girl, you can accurately determine what is on his mind.
What does friendship mean?
It would seem that love and friendship are two different things. But for a young man, a friendly attitude towards a girl already means that she is attractive to him.
If he strives to be there, helps in every possible way and provides all possible assistance in various everyday situations, there is a great chance that the guy likes you. It is possible that he wants to take the place of a lover next to the only one that a man madly likes. Why does he hide his feelings?
Perhaps at some point at the beginning of the acquaintance, the woman made it clear with a word or a hint that he was not her ideal and she did not see him next to her as a lover. Without losing hope for reciprocity, in such a situation, the guys try to prove themselves as faithful and reliable friends, expecting the young beauty to appreciate their efforts and skills.
Such a strategy very often bears fruit, because being nearby makes it easier to get close, find common interests, get to know the girl better and choose an approach to her.
Conquering the princess is the task of a real hunter
By nature, every male is a conqueror and a hunter. Therefore, a sign that a man likes you can be regular active attempts to get close by any means.
If a young man arranges "random" meetings, seeks to get into the company where the girl appears, or otherwise attracts attention, then he probably wants to become her heart friend.
Paradoxically, if the situation is in favor of a young man - he easily got the girl's phone, she happily agreed to a date - the gentleman can quickly lose interest.
The heart of the princess did not need to be won, and this is depressing.
It turned out that there was no need to arrange a hunt.
The power of courtesies and compliments
Listing the main signs that a man likes a woman, one cannot fail to mention gifts, surprises, compliments and other signs of attention. It doesn't matter what the value of the gift is - if you received it from the hands of a guy you like, then it is likely that your feelings are mutual.
Even a seemingly insignificant sign of attention (especially if it is not given on March 8 or the New Year) can be regarded as a signal that the gentleman wants to attract the favorable gaze of the chosen one.
You should beware of those who are used to complimenting all girls without exception. Take a closer look at how a young man behaves with other young ladies.
Think about whether he has a mercantile interest (for example, if they expect some kind of service from you at work).
If the compliments sound sincere, and the guy does not look like a manipulator or womanizer, there is a chance to build a warm relationship with him.
The cinema is a great place for a first date
Do you rejoice that a young man invited you to the cinema? Is a date complete if he didn't try to kiss you in the semi-darkness of the movie theater? In most cases, this is anyway a good sign that a man probably likes you.
The cinema is often chosen as a meeting place by shy young people who find it difficult to directly confess their feelings. Sitting in a dark room, it is easier to take a girl by the hand or give her a little hug.
But even if small signals could not be noticed, the very fact that the man sat through the end of the melodrama in the style of the movie "Titanic", and did not run away in the middle of the film, speaks of the intention to get to know the chosen one better.
What can touch tell us?
Even light touches on the arms, shoulders, or back, even if ostensibly by chance, can convey feelings. And, of course, we are not talking about intimate areas. The signals are simple - a woman is attractive to a man.
A girl can also touch the guy she likes, making it clear that she is not against a relationship with him. But you need to act carefully and not push the gentleman away. Still, it is better that the initiative comes from him. Let him take the first timid steps.
eloquent look
Sometimes you can notice a man's gaze is fixed, which is directed at the person he likes. This sign is unequivocal - the guy likes you. But even if the look is not so obvious, a man steals a glance at you and averts his eyes as soon as he meets yours, it is worth considering.
Young people are more likely to direct their gaze to those girls who are attractive to them. They also expect to be reciprocated with playful behavior and light flirting. This is an effective technique for seduction, this is how all relationships begin.
Some other signals
In addition to the quite obvious and obvious signals sent by a man to a young lady he likes, there are seemingly less noticeable and insignificant ones, which can also indicate serious sympathy. It is only necessary to notice them in time and correctly interpret them.
Here are some signs that a guy likes a girl:
How to find out the secret?
Is it necessary to elicit a man's secret if he guards it so carefully? Is it worth it to take the first step and openly ask him about his attitude towards you? Psychologists advise not to rush things.
If the guy is “not mature”, then a question on the forehead can scare away and cross out the nascent relationship. A woman should remain wise and try only to correctly understand the signals for herself, which, as a rule, are sent in large quantities by male representatives.
It is interesting to know the whole truth, but will it not cool the ardor of a real hunter who is not afraid of difficulties and, by and large, rejoices in them? The more difficult it is to conquer a beauty, the more desirable and sweeter the victory will be for him. The trick of a woman should be to maintain interest, guide her lover and prepare the ground for a long-awaited declaration of love.
Time is an excellent resource that plays to the benefit of love, if it is properly disposed of and circumstances are arranged for you.
The situation and the case play an important role - only when a man is one hundred percent sure that he is ready for the next step and a close relationship, he will dare and confess his feelings.
Love is the most beautiful feeling of all hitherto known to man. It helps to enjoy life and create, gives inspiration and faith in the best. But sometimes she leaves without warning. And there comes a moment when a person notices that the “half” seems to be slipping through his fingers. Of course, you should not prepare for such a moment in advance, because it may not happen. But if you notice in time that the partner begins to "cool down", there is a chance to return the old feelings.
Be more attentive to the details: it is in them that the answer to the secret question is hidden, which we often address to daisies - it seems to be for the sake of a joke, but at the same time, like children, we are waiting for a miracle with bated breath. You need to understand that in any relationship there are ups and downs, times of calm and moments when embers can flare up with renewed vigor. But in the situations that will be discussed below, something clearly went wrong ...
1. Anna Karenina in the novel of the same name by Leo Tolstoy began to irritate her husband's ears. If something like this happens to you - before something did not cause a reaction, but now it catches your eye all the time, or what you liked is now repulsive - most likely, big changes have taken place in your relationship.
2. They look at you a little, that is, eye contact has become less long and expressive. You smile less often. If you look closely, you will notice that in your presence. Or you began to notice such an attitude towards your partner.
3. Very often a person who ceases to feel love for his partner begins to touch him less and less. He has no need and desire to feel once a loved one. Even being in a small room, he will try to avoid mutual touches, and if this cannot be avoided, they will not be affectionate and warm, like a person in love.
4. As soon as a man and a woman stop laughing at the same jokes, making fun of each other cutely, it's time to reanimate the relationship if your partner is still dear to you. The ability to laugh at what is happening, at funny and difficult situations, not only helps to live, but also testifies to the harmony between people.
5. You notice that you become uninterested in almost everything that your partner says or can say. Communication with him seems to take all your energy. The partner, for his part, may not support the proposed topic, but rather strive to “curl” it. Conversations mostly concern formal things from which there is simply nowhere to go, or they start simply in order to take time and maintain a semblance of contact.
6. A loving couple is characterized by a desire to jointly develop plans to achieve goals that are important to them. The reluctance to share plans, to discuss decisions that affect the future life together, should be a warning to you that your partner has ceased to experience strong emotions for you. And if such secrecy was not immediately inherent in him, it is worth considering how to correct the situation before everything has gone too far.
7. The fact that the partner has stopped loving you is also evidenced by rare phone calls. At the beginning of a relationship, any man strives to conquer a woman by constantly calling her and checking how she is in her mood, what she does, how she treats him. When love is gone, the man does not care, and he bothers himself with calls less and less. And the calls of the chosen one begin to answer later, referring to urgent matters.
8. Often, with little or no reason, your partner (or you) has an irritated tone in conversation. Increasingly, in a couple there are scandals about and especially for no reason.
9. During a showdown, the partner does not seek a constructive solution to problems, but simply tries to hurt, offend and humiliate you as painfully as possible. He seems to be trying to get you to be the first to leave this relationship, creating an unbearable environment in which it is impossible to live.
10. If they don’t argue with you, they can simply be suppressed silent - as if clamping the answer or remark in themselves. The partner withdraws into himself and ceases to participate in family life, preferring to go headlong into work or some kind of hobby.
11. You periodically catch yourself feeling that everything has already been said between you, there will be nothing new and you just need to endure a person who has imperceptibly become an outsider for you. There is a vague feeling that you are wasting your time.
12. Under any pretext at the weekend, your “half” tries to disappear from home, preferring to spend free time with friends (it is possible that with a new potential “half”). It is especially alarming if, before leaving their house, the partner’s mood rises noticeably, and he examines himself in the mirror more captiously than usual.
13. If a partner indifferently watches how his half flirts with someone else (or someone tries to flirt with her), then things are bad: as they say, “love has passed, the tomatoes have withered.” And the time of parting here depends on whether the lovers are married or are just living together. The main thing is not to take an offended and defiantly turned away partner for an indifferent statue!
14. See if your significant other is hiding something? If he or she doesn't part with his gadget and closes the screen when he thinks you might be peeking, chances are you have serious reason to think. Unless they are preparing a surprise birthday party for you or looking for a gift in an online store. But this will be more of an isolated incident, rather than a permanent behavior.
15. If you are almost sure that your partner is playing a double game, and are determined to bring him to clean water, use the bluff method. Make a serious face and say convincingly: "I know everything." If the “half” is really up to his ears, she will buy into it and give herself away with her head. In the worst case, you can probably find out what you only guessed about. At best, you will find out that you have been winding yourself up in vain, and your loved one has been afraid for a week to admit that he accidentally broke your favorite cup.
Women who believe that a man can fall in love with themselves are deeply mistaken. This is explained by the fact that the stronger sex falls in love with the subconscious, so seductresses should not rely only on external gloss, showiness or deliberate manipulation.
Everything that men are aware of has absolutely nothing to do with love. That is why, quite often, attractive, smart, tender and sexy women are left alone, wondering why "men always choose just which one."
How do manipulative patterns work? A vivid example: a girl puts on a mini, a blouse with a deep neckline, does catchy makeup. This helps to play on the "animal instinct" of the opposite sex, but there is no talk of real seduction yet. Looking at you, the "male" thinks approximately the following: "Here come the cool ass and breasts. If only they could be squeezed tighter!". Seduction begins only when a man himself cannot explain why he is so attracted to you.
So, your challenge is not thrown to passions hidden in someone else's soul, but only to gross lust, which is not associated with you personally, but with the weaker sex as a whole. Unfortunately, situations like this happen all the time. In the head of a man, only one thought ripens: "This chick has put on provocative clothes to turn on, and I want this woman. However, if that beauty or her girlfriend is wearing the same miniskirt, then I will be drawn to them."
Of course, the visual effects, the behavior of a woman, her words are able to attract attention, hook, that is, affect the consciousness of a representative of the stronger sex. But the subconscious, in which feelings are born, remains unconquered, because neither intrigue, nor playful behavior, nor lust will help here.
Perhaps some readers will immediately ask themselves the question: why do men who are indifferent to me sometimes fall in love with me? This happens for the reason that in the company of "uninteresting" men, a woman does not think about how she will please those present; she is liberated, because the subconscious is not blocked. Men do not feel threatened either: nothing foreshadows that they will be seized, and then they will take all measures to "ring" the chosen one.
Any representative of the stronger sex subconsciously knows how to distinguish between "his" and "alien" woman - an enemy that uses "violent" seduction for his own purposes, for the sake of the future with the "victim". I immediately recall the popular saying that you can’t be nice by force. So it is with the subconscious: access to it through coercion, attack is impossible!
In order to fall in love with a man, you need to find the key to his subconscious through ... your own! A woman should take care not only about how to look beautiful or handle properly, for example, with cutlery and glasses in a restaurant, but also to comprehend a more subtle and complex science - the ability to feel men like herself.
Already in a conversation, you will know what and how to say to another person, where to pause, ask a question, use facial expressions, etc. The result will not keep you waiting: you will see that you constantly hit the target, that you manage to win over a man who opens up more and more, reaches out to you, begins to communicate more naturally. Simply put, it lets you in, gradually opening the soul.
So, let's draw some conclusions from what we've read:
- Men are seduced by those women who do not show obvious interest, do not try to impress.
- The strong sex circles only around those charmers who perceive them as a "kind", but feminists are left behind.
- Love, cherish, pamper yourself, dear women! Believe me, others (including men) will begin to treat you the same way. Whoever treats himself with tenderness and care, he causes a desire to take care of his person. Not a single woman who skillfully uses an ax and an oar evokes a desire to approach her and help, but on the contrary, evokes a desire to watch the picture to the end, with obvious interest and a question in her head - “will she rake or not rake”, will she cut down this tree or not master it.
- If you can let go of a man at the subconscious level, then he will 99% not be in a hurry to leave you. Paradox, but it is a fact.
And now, a real life example:
Once, an elderly woman came to me for a consultation for advice. (Let's call her, for example, Natasha, for the convenience of narration, I won’t say her real name, so as not to injure a person inadvertently). How should she be. I met a man - Valery. He is good for everyone: he has a pleasant appearance, he has money, he also has housing, he is not married, but ... one thing. The man immediately put forward his conditions. Natasha said something like this: “I am a good-looking man, not deprived of female attention, I have a good position in society, I am financially secure and practically do not need anything, so I do not intend, as a freshman, to run after you and fulfill all your whims. me". Natalia is in a panic, what should I do? I read so many books, I went through so many women's trainings, they say everywhere, a man is a hunter, give him the opportunity to run after you, but this one flatly refuses, and even on the 1st date he almost set an ultimatum.
Natasha is a single woman raising a child alone. But with all this, it is also provided: an apartment, a car, a decent salary, and beauty is not deprived. But I'm tired of living alone, pulling the strap, being both dad and mom.
She clung to this Valery as if it were the last train.
I had no choice but to convince her of the worthiness of this man. I fired this man (may God forgive me) as best I could, saying at the end that he was mentally unhealthy, that normal men don’t behave like that on a first date. Adding that this is only the 1st date and so many demands and claims against you - a practically unfamiliar woman, what will happen next? In general, she criticized the man both in the tail and in the mane. She asked several leading questions, Natalia thought about it and eventually let go of this situation. Thank you call 2 days later. He speaks: "Eva, do not believe it, as soon as I decided for myself that Valery is not the hero of my novel, as soon as Isaid to herself- "I will not go on this train, there is the next one," so the man immediately changed his tactics of behavior. Valery began to call, remind about himself and suddenly presented a bouquet of roses. And earlier he said: "Flowers are not a gift, they are money down the drain."
And the relationship began to develop in a completely different scenario. This is one particular example but there are a lot of such examples in my practice.
Draw your own conclusion.