Prehistory: I bought a car, there is oil in the antifreeze tank. The owner said that the heat exchanger gaskets changed. Apparently the old oil remains. Drained - antifreeze ideally (the transparent color is bright, without oil), but there is oil in the tank on the walls, in the nozzles there are also flakes on the walls, but rare. Washed long and hard. Only Felix took the tank, only Felix coped with the system (before him, there was one more remedy, but there was little use besides foam). Filled with new antifreeze - everything returned to normal. Oil did not appear (for 2 weeks).
The story itself: in general, antifreeze is leaving. It only goes away when the car is cold. On hot - in any. The official did not find a hot leak. I stole it from him to the garage, let the car cool down (2-3 hours), blew into the tank and everything began to clear up. Dripping under the oil exchanger (yes, yes, he is).
Here are the pics:

the most understandable photo for "orientation" from under the car. On the left is the pump, in the middle is the oil dipstick tube, on the right is the lower manifold bank.
Here it is from different angles:

Plans: disassemble on their own. Look at the location of the leak for more details. If not clear, use sealant for all gaskets. If it is clear - change a specific gasket or several.
Questions (to make cheap and cheerful):
1) What kind of gasket can leak and how to understand it if everything is disassembled.
2) Is it worth it to overpay for the original?
3) Normal manufacturer of non-original gaskets.
4) Share your experience of using sealant (red) in these works.

Car mileage 115 thousand. Gaskets supposedly changed at 100 - 105.